Mariah Crawford's

Mediumship is a sacred circle of spiritual energies blending and working together: the spirit people, including Angel Guides, the medium and the clients or “sitters.” The energies of all those gathered together in Spirit are involved, both here on Earth and in the Spirit World. Each person in our Earthly circle must choose to help raise vibrations (versus lowering them), and work together in harmony with all concerned for the clarity and richness of our time together. Those of us on Earth must weave our energies together to raise the vibrations toward the Realms of Light, while those in Spirit must lower theirs so that we can meet in between the worlds. The responsibility for a good reading is dependent upon everyone involved. We are all eternal beings sitting together in the Light, some of us still clothed in physical bodies living upon Earth, some now residing in the Realms of Light in the spirit body.

We live in a fast-paced, stressful world, and it is important to prepare ourselves before a reading. The most uplifting, inspirational and accurate readings come about when everyone is as relaxed, prepared and open as possible. The vibrational energy radiating from you affects the medium and the spirit people who have come to bring their messages. To create a better atmosphere and connection with the Spirit World you need to allow yourself to slow down, breathe, quiet your mind and relax. I will not give a reading to sitters who have used recreational drugs or alcohol before their session with me, as these lower the vibrations, and adversely affect the connection with Spirit and the quality of the reading. Please take to heart all that is offered below so that your session with me, and with Spirit, can be a deeply healing, profound, and exquisitely beautiful experience:

• Avoid expectations of what should happen and who will come to visit from the Spirit World. Please allow me, your Guides and loved ones to work together for the best outcome. However, if you are hoping to hear from a specific person or persons, let me know at the beginning of your appointment, giving as little information as possible. Simply give me the name of the spirit person, or their connection with you, and when they passed to Spirit. No other information is needed. Sometimes everyone else you asked to come in does visit, but the special person does not appear. Sometimes, for various reasons, spirit people will stand back until specifically asked for: those who were shy, and wouldn’t put themselves forward; those who are ashamed of their behavior; those you had difficulties with or did something hurtful to you; those who committed suicide; those involved in other sad and painful circumstances. If the person is not available, the Angel Guides can often let us know why. They may still be: asleep, resting and receiving healing in the Halls of Healing; unable to communicate yet; have moved on to higher realms; are working in a class, or are assisting others in the World of Spirit, or even Earthbound. More often than not spirit people will come forward right away. Do not try to control what Spirit wishes to bring forth for you. Know that your Angel Guides and loved ones are only concerned with what is best for you. Allow this time to be a sacred experience.


• Avoid being over-talkative.  Remember, you did not come to hear yourself talk, but to receive help, love, guidance and communication from your Guides and loved ones. I, as well as the spirit communicators, may become frustrated and eventually give up when we are not permitted to bring forth all that would be of help, because of constant interruption or continual talking by the sitter. However, questions are always welcomed, especially if clarification is needed.


• Do not try to prolong a reading.  As a medium I always feel when the spiritual energies are gone, and I may be exhausted, as well , which not only affects accuracy and clarity, but adversely affects me. You are always welcome to make another appointment. Thank you understanding how much energy it takes a medium to do this work, as well as for those in Spirit. Allow the time to be used well, so that I, and all those from Spirit who have visited, feel you have received what you needed, and that we were able to do a good job for you.


• Mediumship is not fortune telling.  A good reading should offer helpful guidance, comfort, upliftment and clarity, leaving you more peaceful and heart-whole, and with a better understanding of the wonderful work and love of Spirit. Prediction is possible, but know that you have the power to change future events by your God-given free will. You may hear things you do not want to hear regarding suggested changes in your life, and you may choose to ignore what has been offered. Each person has free will to make changes now that will positively affect their future. Our Angels may show us possible outcomes, and sow spiritual seeds by offering options, then we must make our informed choices and decisions, and live our lives accordingly.


• Receiving a reading can often be emotional and intense.   Even though you have thoroughly read this information, you may still have questions about the process, so please feel free to ask those questions before we begin. This will help dispel any concerns or fears you may have, and help you open to what is brought.


• Sometimes a spirit person may be an inexperienced communicator which can make a good, clear connection very difficult. Spirit people are just as they were of Earth: good or poor communicators .  Send loving energy to your loved ones (human and animal), prior to and during the appointment, to create a strong spiritual bridge so they can more easily impress my mind with their messages. Sometimes, they may have to start all over again in another way with different symbols, mind pictures, words, etc., or wait for another time. Please help me “connect the dots” when pieces come through that may not at first make sense. Spirit family and friends will keep trying until they are recognized and have communicated their message, so be patient and compassionate.


• We all retain memories here on Earth , and we carry some of those into the Spirit World. But, spirit loved ones may not always be able to easily remember all the details of their Earthly life, especially if they have been in the Spirit World for a long time, for Earthly memories may not be their focus any more. It takes great concentration for spirit people to bring up specific Earth memories because they seem so far away and long ago. When we return Home we will understand many of these things, and all will be made clear!


• If you will only accept specific, special information and messages, such as a pet name, or an agreed upon word, etc, you may eliminate the possibility of a clear, true message being received. Know this: Spirit people insist upon communicating in their own unique ways, through symbols, pictures, words, songs, etc., but may also provide evidence of their identity in many different and sometimes surprising ways. They may show me how they looked when they lived on Earth, often coming in as young people, even if they passed at old age. They’ll discuss relationships, important or seemingly insignificant incidents, favorite foods, colors, hobbies and how they “died.” Sometimes, they are able to transmit their name, the names of spirit loved ones with them, as well as people they care about upon Earth and want to talk about or send a message to. Sometimes, the spirit person’s name is not clear, but pieces of it may be: first letters, sounds or parts of their first, middle and last names. Due to static electricity or incomplete transmission, only parts may come through on one name, yet completely clear sounds may come through with the others. They will bring what they choose to bring, not what is wanted by the sitter.


• When I bring information forth from Spirit and ask you to verify that it is correct, please affirm or deny in an honest way. We mediums need to feel we are on the right wave-length with the information or spirit person coming through. Don’t give away evidence by adding extra facts, only confirm. I may feel frustrated if you give me information first, especially if the spirit person is beginning to transmit that very same information to me. The reading will be more accurate and convincing when I am allowed to do my job without interference. Sitters who are suspicious or cynical and have negative attitudes ruin their chances for a good reading. Negativity and cynicism, as well as attempts to test or confuse me, may more often than not block a good connection with those in Spirit, as well as exhaust me. Stonewalling and impatience adds to that negativity. I will not continue a reading if such behavior continues after being discussed. Everything in the Universe is energy, vibration, frequencies. Let’s keep the vibration high to create the very best reading for you! Simply be fair, open and truthful, and let me know when I am correct. Communication with Spirit is not a game, and takes a great deal of energy for both the medium and the spirit communicators.


• Please remember that mediumship is not “talking to the dead,” but is truly talking to those living in the Spirit World, where we all return. This includes humans and animals, loved ones, friends, family, neighbors, etc.


• A reading with those in Spirit will not be like the shows for entertainment seen on TV or in the movies.   Life, and the information brought by Spirit, does not always wrap up in a neat and tidy format, as it does for a 30 or 60 minute TV show, with all the mysteries of Life discovered or solved. God, or Infinite Spirit, is the Universal Force, and is “in charge” of the universe. There is a great plan for each of our lives, and a Great Plan for all that is. Avoid being overly influenced by Western culture’s views regarding spiritual matters and communion with the World of Spirit. Decide for yourself what feels right and makes sense!


• Please avoid saying “no” too quickly to what is brought forth. Your memory may bring the understanding later ~ sometimes weeks, months or even years afterwards! Some information that is given may be more clearly understood by the end of the session, or later after you’ve listened to your CD and have processed all that transpired. In addition, some spirit people may not be immediately known to you, but may be family members from long ago (who may have already passed on before you were born), as well as friends, co-workers, neighbors, teachers or friends of someone you know. You may be asked to be a messenger for a spirit person who visits. Do not allow your particular expectations to be all you are willing to accept. Please stay open to receive what is brought. Spirit does indeed work in mysterious and wondrous ways!


• If you wish to ask particular questions, meditate on them prior to your appointment, and give Spirit enough time to prepare an answer. No spirit claims to have all the answers on the spur of the moment, whether they are our Guides or loved ones. Neither the spirit people nor the medium are infallible. Spirit answers questions in their own way and time, and sometimes not at all.


• When you have made your appointment with me invite your Spirit Guides and loved ones in advance, telling them the date and time. Then, speak with them the morning of the appointment and pray for clear connection and to be at peace. Excited energies bring down the vibrations, so peacefulness is important. Those you invite will come if possible, and if they wish to. I have no control of which loved ones, friends, or Guides choose to be a part of the session, nor can I control what they choose to bring. I can ask that certain spirit people not be allowed into the session, if that is what the sitter requests


• Immediate contact with people who have just made the Transition to the World of Spirit may not be possible.   Some spirit people may not be ready to communicate immediately, nor do they know how.  People who have been ill for a long time, or had a traumatic passing, may rest for some time in the Halls of Healing in the Spirit World. It is wise to allow some time before an attempt is made, to avoid disappointment if your loved ones does not come in, or if they are unable to communicate well or at all. Some spirit people, however, seem to be able to communicate immediately. The more we can learn about our True Home now the easier it will be to communicate when we return to the Spirit World. If you strive to be an excellent communicator on Earth (speaking your Truth clearly and with kindness) you will also tremendously enhance the ability to communicate well with those on Earth after you have crossed over.


• Sometimes, spirit people who meant very little to you in life may come into a session, but those you most want to see may not come in, or have little to say. Your Angels help arrange all these communications, and we are asked to accept those who come with love, messages and guidance. Some may be coming to ask for forgiveness, or to make amends for their actions while on Earth. The spirit people we love the most may not be available, or have chosen to let others speak. They may be studying, processing and reviewing their Earthly lives, resting in the Halls of Healing, working with their Guides, learning to communicate with those on Earth, assisting others, etc. You may feel disappointed that certain people did not come to visit, or say what you wished them to say (as is so often the case here on Earth!), but please allow yourself to feel blessed for that which comes forth for you from Spirit. We cannot control the Universe. Let us try to open to perceiving the Greater Plan.


• You may find comfort from suffering through connection with beloved ones in Spirit.   But, you will also come to truly know that there is, indeed, continuity of Life, and that we too will exist beyond the Change called “death .” You may then find there is no need to be filled with fear, to hate or be consumed by addictions or the materialism in our culture. You may also find that as you release your fears of “death” that you will fully begin to live the precious life you’ve been given!


• No undue authority must be given to any spirit teacher or spirit person simply because they speak from the Spirit World. If they are genuine, they will offer advice, suggestions and alternatives, and then ask the sitter to use her/his own judgment. You may listen to Spirit advice, but it is ultimately your personal decision to make changes, follow the advice, etc. A good message helps guide you on the road to right living, and continue to evolve spiritually.


• Mediumship is not an exact science. Some days the Veil between the worlds is easier for the medium to move through than on others. All involved in the session must keep their “thinking caps” on, be alert and very present to avoid missing what Spirit is attempting to bring forth. Therefore, if you want clear, evidential messages from loved ones and your Guides in Spirit, let your heart be loving and open to receive those gifts. Listen to the messages at the time, but analyze afterwards. Try to feel the loving energy that is being shared with you. Your loved ones are always striving to find ways to let you know they are with you, still care deeply, and are interested in all aspects of your life. Process the messages later to determine if they brought help and encouragement for life’s challenges and transitions, if you were given upliftment, came into a new understanding and clarity, and felt loved and comforted. Mediumship is truly a precious and sacred gift from Infinite Spirit/God . "There is no death, there are no dead, we live and love you still!" (from a Spiritualist poem) Let us all honor communication between the worlds, by doing our part to make the time we have together beautiful, glorious and joyful! Blessings, love and peace to you!

Copyright © 2009 Mariah Crawford